I think you've been spying on me. This very subject came up in a Bible study class I attended at Church yesterday...Strange...but maybe not so strange. :)
I rarely ever hear this brought up in my circles. It seems it isn't "crucial" enough to think about. Maybe that is my fault, I need to bring it up I guess.
I looked like this frequently after I first discovered the Doctrines of Grace. Of course, I took the "angry Calvinist" position far too often and my opponents usually looked worse than I did.